Analysis, Constructive Criticism and Success

Posted on August 18th, 2010

 

The first four letters of the word analysis do not automatically define its interpretation to mean one has to be truly anal with regards to self analysis or / and especially when offering analysis or criticism towards another. A wire brush approach will tear not only your hide but cause visible blemishes and may even affect your posture drastically.

A soft cell approach is always more conducive to harmony that full charge ahead indifferent to sensitivity. If you happen to be a mentor or in the pose of an important influence on another please use kindness and a more gentler approach towards constructive as the results will be more appreciative with returns.

For some sensitivity is an important issue and albeit having an awesome talent they are finely tuned in the gentleness department requiring to be handled with kid gloves. However they are not so narcissistic that they have no appreciation for constructive criticism and respond favourably producing accolades from implementing the suggestions received because they were offered kindly.

The spirit of horses and other animals are broken every day by trainers and handlers with as much sensitivity as broken glass and the soles of our feet as we walk across it. Human spirit too is broken similarly and so many times we have seen the evidence of vagueness and shattered spirits.

Unless you are a blacksmith forging iron brute force will not serve well and as in diamonds it is the gentle touch that carves the delicacies of design bringing the beauty to the eye. Beauty to the eye is as important to the beholder as to each of us individually and thus shall be handled with delicate respectful love.

In relationships of parents and children it is said that constructive criticism is a form of love a sign of caring; that all depends again on how it is offered or forcibly dictated. A coach with sincerity of purpose knows to the millimeter how far it is necessary to plunge with each individual on his or her team reaping amazing results accordingly.

Success is made or withdrawn by the force of language, poise, posture and especially undertones. Therefore it shall be conducive for a successful conclusion to recognise ones limitations and attain the sought after goal.

Constructive criticism is the difference between reaching within and giving up but if it matches the desire inching it forward to forge outward the talents that are awaiting release; success shall triumph and tears of joy shall flow instead tears of anger, despair and hurt.

Useful tip: Develop sensitive listening skills and be aware of the individuality of all while being aware of a successful conclusion. But also knowing how to harness the hidden talents with finely tuned and appropriately placed constructive criticism given with love and respect.

 

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About the Author:
Tomas Coimin is a master of motivational techniques with a strong desire to help others seek greater peace through positive self-esteem. Based in Co. Tipperary Ireland. Through the years it has been very rewarding to receive acknowledgments from readers indicating the benefits of my writings and thus I pray to continue to deliver quality pieces to continue the trends of previous successes. I write and publish poetry and short stories too but my chief aim is to work towards strengthening self-esteem while eliminating the ravages caused by abuses whether financial, physical, sexual or mental.Tomas may be reached at selfesteemawareness@gmail.com
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